It is true to say that many younger women prefer the attention of the more mature type of male partner and equally a large percentage of males will openly admit to being attracted to the younger woman, so it’s not really surprising that sugar daddy dating has become so popular. But what does each partner gain from such a relationship? Is sugar daddy dating all about sex for favors? Or should we be looking beyond it’s victorian roots for an answer much less sinister.
There is little doubt that there are certain females who will see sugar daddy dating as an ideal way to make their financial future more secure. These females will typically seek a long term arrangement rather than relationship, and with no strings attached sex offered as bait. On the other hand there are also males who view sugar daddy dating as a way to discover a younger woman, who they can keep adrift from their normal lifestyle, offering no exclusivity and are prepared to pay the price. However, the majority of those excited by the prospects offered by sugar daddy dating websites, regardless of gender, are genuinely interested in a long term relationship with an older or younger partner.
So what is it about sugar daddy dating that individuals of both sexes find exciting? Well, it’s not rocket science! But first of all, you must appreciate that in today’s social climate, the regular, everyday relationship between male and female tends to be shallow and almost throwaway like the material things of society. Perhaps this is the main reason why only one in three marriages last longer than ten years.
It is also given that at any age, the female is at least ten years ahead of the male in terms of maturity. So naturally she would be more suited to sugar daddy dating, and with a male at least ten years her senior. A large percentage of women report that they find males of their own age boring and lacking in respect. The sexual side of the relationship soon becomes stale without the romance she craves, and before long it becomes very apparent they have nothing in common.
Let’s take a look at the obvious benefits sugar daddy dating sites have to offer both to male and female members. The typical male membership would consist mainly of wealthy and successful men who enjoy the company of a younger woman, and have a need to love and protect their partner. The male who joins a sugar daddy dating site is typically protective, caring, romantic yet dynamic. He will take pride in his appearance and condition and enjoy a good quality of life although sleeping alone rather than settling for a partner that fails to excite him. The female membership at a sugar daddy dating site may not, contrary to general opinion, need a financial benefactor to save her from the bailiffs. (and there is no future in such a relationship.) She will more typically be an independant yet feminine woman, who spends time on her appearance and body, and her attraction to sugar daddy dating goes way beyond the need to improve her quality of life. She will often be attracted to a more mature successful male capable of making her decisions for her, treating her like a princess and showing total respect for her very being.
The sexual aspect of a relationship is for many the most important part of all. Physical attraction is high on most member agendas, and in that respect sugar daddy dating is no different. It is not uncommon for the female to find success rather than wealth (although they often go hand in hand) an attractive quality too. The sex is often slow and deliberate with flirting and teasing an important part of the foreplay. Quickies are a rarity and the foreplay will often begin in the restaurant or earlier in the evening.
Sugar daddy dating is just one of the many niche online dating sites which have appeared all over the Internet. Many dating site members have become disillusioned with the regular online dating sites and the lack of search facilities in finding a partner who’s interests, appearance and mindset are close to those sought. Niche dating sites immediately shorten the odds in searching for a suitable partner and it’s no surprise that these websites are growing in popularity.
So can sugar daddy dating be more fun? Well the growing trend towards the older guy / younger woman relationship would suggest just that. Once a woman had dated a more mature male she will rarely go back to same age dating. There is little doubt that sugar daddy dating can be a great deal of fun for those looking for more than a run of the mill relationship.
Trevor Taylor
About the Author – Trevor Taylor
Trevor Taylor writes of his experiences in the Online Dating arenas.
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I think it is great that there are dating services that boldly state what they are up to, even when their dating niche is considered a “no-no” for the rest of society.
I can’t see the attraction personally. I am quite happy with my younger husband.
Anytime there is a win/win situation, I’m in support
I think people are now looking for more in a relationship other than the usual couples we see…so these dating sites as a sign of innovation are trying to lure people anyway possible….if both the male and female are ready to experiment then why not….
Ok, here’s a question….
If you had to choose between an older, established “sugar daddy” and the high school heart throb, who would you choose, and why?
Sage, it is impossible to answer your question. It would depend on their personality, looks and all sorts of other factors.
My husband is 6 yrs younger than me. We’ve been married for 13 yrs. Am I considered a Sugar Mama?
debrajean, you are not a sugar mama! lol
I’m mixed on this one. I guess for me it would depend on whether they truly LIKE each other and one or the other of them aren’t just taking advantage.
And the window for taking advantage is present on *both* sides.
I have read a few articles like this recently and they pretty much suggest the same things. I think it is a bit early to know what the real outcomes (success or failure) with this niche is.
Interestingly enough, more and more bloggers I’ve found, believe that the older woman/younger man (cougar relationship) is more on the rise as opposed to the suggar Daddy
Cougar relationship… I haven’t heard that term before.
Personally I’d be much more comfortable in the sugar daddy scenario.
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