Comments on: Learnt the Hard Way, Infidelity Isn’t Worth It

By: Sagemother

Sagemother — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 21:50:01 +0000

Well it’s nice they talked tings through.

The hard part is waiting to see if a cheater actually changes their behavior.

By: stav

stav — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 16:20:36 +0000

I wouldn’t have gone to all that trouble.. I’d have packed his bags and sent him out into the cold cold snow as soon as i found out.

By: Taylor Blue

Taylor Blue — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 22:51:17 +0000

Obviously nothing because I ended up with the idiot.. LOL

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 22:49:37 +0000

Oh, Taylor… what did your mum tell you about *dating* a man that does not wear clean underwear…..

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 09:24:07 +0000

EviesEarth, I don’t know how you can be friends with her…. It takes two to get in bed with the devil….

Did she know before she got started on a relationship with him?

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 00:28:09 +0000

Mauvekat, under your belt for when the situation calls for ….

By: Bobby

Bobby — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 22:42:44 +0000

I believe when all is said and done, communication rules the day. If one feels the need to cheat on their partner, the mature thing to do is to think it out completely, especially the “why.”
If one then comes to the conclusion that he/she no longer wants to be exclusively with their partner, then talk with them about it and move on.

Cheating at that point becomes obsolete.
Sometimes we shouldn’t have our cake and eat it too, especially at another’s expense!

By: Rob

Rob — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 09:03:13 +0000

I like how these women get on these sites and talk about their ex-boyfriends. So you and the guy break up…big deal. We are talking about a husband and a wife who have been married for quite sometime. Their lives are completely interwoven. I believe her plan was brilliant. By showing him how much it hurt she showed him how much she loves him and how much he is a fool cause he loves her.

By: Taylor Blue

Taylor Blue — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 02:57:34 +0000

You know that is so true…the signs that the guy has. My x was cheating on me…and the clincher on how I really knew he was cheating. He wore clean underwear. That was a dead give away for me. But, after I left him I didn’t get a confirmation until about a year later when people finally came up to me and told me.

By: EviesEarth

EviesEarth — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 06:15:15 +0000

My ex cheated on me. I found out on my own through clues also. I became friends with her and we got him back, it was so sweet! Needless to say, I broke up with him as there was no longer trust.