Comments on: 10 Breakup Must-Do’s

By: Orrymain

Orrymain — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 21:12:31 +0000

This is a great list and very helpful. I especially liked the one about writing down your thoughts. That’s so therapeutic.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 06:56:31 +0000

Nancy, wouldn’t you say that *breaking up* is the worst procrastination us humans do????

I know I don’t like changes and I used to get into this habit of …. waiting for reality to just dump a bucket of cold water on my head before I actually smarten up and do the deed.

By: Bobby

Bobby — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 21:55:47 +0000

I like this advice and find it very sound. It always seems to come down to us getting over our own hurdles, which is such a difficult thing to do at times.

Cheers!

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 21:35:57 +0000

Katharina, if I find stats like that online, I’ll be sure to put together a followup post.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 21:29:36 +0000

SageMother, I believe in the same thing.

I prefer that my husband has his own interests and I have my own. That doesn’t mean that we don’t do things together either.

For example, he takes to salsa dance classes a week that I don’t go to. Even if I know that there are a lot of cute girls in his class, this is something that I want him to do on his own. Just like I like having coffee with my friends (guys and girls) without him so that I can get stuff off my chest that I normally wouldn’t do if he was around.

By: Nancy

Nancy — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 16:06:31 +0000

Some great tips, it can be tough when you break up with someone and lists like this would help some people.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 19:31:50 +0000

debrajean, Is there really such a thing as an happy breakup…. ?

By: Katharina

Katharina — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 16:53:04 +0000

There are some great comments to this one. I find the last few thoughts extra interesting.

Wish there’d be some stats about relationships staying together when a lot of time is spent together vs. those who have individual interests.

By: SageMother

SageMother — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 16:00:11 +0000

You know, Diva, that time spent doing things without the spouse really makes me appreciate him more.

He is also more interesting. His individual pursuits bring spice to a life that could get pretty boring if we acted like Siamese Twins1

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 23:51:23 +0000

SageMother, regardless of which direction a relationship is heading, people should always retain their own individuality.

I love to do things with my husband, but there are activities that I make him do on his own, and same with me. It works very well with us.