I do would take the same stand also. But I do know some who prefer to believe that love is worth fighting for.

Sometimes, I think the same way too, until I realize how much of a *big* *big* effort it is.

It does work for some and that takes a lot of courage to make the relationship better.

The meaning of the word itself might mean something different to the person standing next to me.

It’s very hard sometimes to make a call unless you are there, but I think change is also a very big factor why we give the cheater the benefit of the doubt.

I personally would leave because for me being with a partner means total and complete fidelity.

Danine’s advice really does help because you should know your facts first before you start assuming the worst.

I don’t think I am the type to “regain” my trust in someone, as I always assume that it is negotiated from moment to moment, even though we might not be aware of it.

I suppose my version of trust is much different from that of most people.

If you read this forum, Ms. Manette, I enjoyed the article tremendously!

Danine Manette is the author of the popular book Ultimate Betrayal: Recognizing, Uncovering and Dealing with Infidelity… and she is also the Diva’s newest *celebrity* writer at IDCheaters.com, lending her personal experience and professional traini…