Just when I thought I was out…

Doesn’t sound like an honest relationship to me. I’d so hate to have to manipulate life just to have someone want to stay with me.

Once we have been in relationships for a while, our brain chemistry adjusts. Most people mistake this for falling out of love or losing interest.

Instead of going through the insanity of “keeping someone interested”, lets accept that we all become that comfortable companion that doesn’t need to be stimulated at every moment.

#1 You probably are the only guy I know who’s not into wrestling. I guess Saturday night at your house must have you on your computer, and her cheering her favourite wrestler….

#2 *Yes Dear* definitely works bettern than *No Dear* and not paying attention. You’ve got your work cut our for you.

#3 Men with no commitment issues are hard to fine. She is one lucky woman! *but of course, you already know that*.

#4 Yes, we should just own all of our imperfections and live with what’s been given to us. Now, only if I can click my heels three times and remember this at all times

However, I believe my wife to be the most gorgeous woman I know and love her more than anything else in this world. She doesn’t have to do ANYTHING to keep me interested. Granted, I’m only 22 and we’ve been married for just over a year… so I’ve got plenty of time before I start to completely neglect her.

here’s my thoughts on the suggestions:
#1, I wish she where interested in computer, encryptions, web programming, or fighting robots. I listen to her when she talks about wrestling (yep, she likes wrestling… and I don’t much care for it… go figure).

#2&3, I don’t need to be right all the time but I sure would like to be wrong less often. Personally, I figured out “yes dear” in only a couple of days in the relationship. She’s a rather stubborn one.

#4, I don’t have any commitment issues so our being together forever does not scare me in the least. In fact, I created a little piece of photo-manipulation of last year’s Halloween costumes to illustrate the concept.

#5, I really wish my wife (and all women) would stop whining about their imperfections and just own them. My wife is gorgeous but she doesn’t feel that way. I’ve been spending the last… 3+ years trying to get her to see herself how I see her. It’s a slow and uphill battle. But the times when she does feel confident (when she gets a new hair cut or some nice new clothes) she’s on fire! Nothing more attractive than a woman who knows what she’s got and is proud to have it.

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