“What is the renewal of affections for some couples is the disarmingly bypassed event for many women,” says Adrian. It doesn’t have to be this way. Adrian mentions his newest book, “Why Men Are Jerks.” “Instead of letting another Valentine’s Day go by spent with a jerk who could care less, make this a day you stand proud as a woman and declare “I deserve better!”"
Here is my list of five warning signs Cupid really may have hit the wrong guy:
1. You pass each other in the hall without kissing.
2. He doesn’t know about your promotion at work because he passed out the day you called him to invite him out to dinner to celebrate.
3. He spends all of his time at home on the computer with the door closed.
4. He has the nerve to insult you, your family and your friends.
5. If he has ever laid a hand on you that wasn’t soft and caressing.
“There are so many people who really want to love and be loved,” insists Adrian. “You just don’t need to settle, my book stresses that.” Adrian’s book discusses the differences between men and women and how women can best handle cases of indifference or even abuse.
“If you’re being abused, no matter what, there is no excuse for it and only good if you get away,” Adrian points his finger matter of factly. “Get yourself to a woman’s shelter and start again.”
After reading Adrian’s book, you may just trade in your beer guzzling Neanderthal for a prince charming. Will Cupid pull his bow back again for you? Adrian certainly believes so.
For more information about Adrian’s book, “Why Men Are Jerks” visit http://www.whymenarejerks.com
Perth, AU (PRWEB) February 10, 2007
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This is excellent advice! I used to work in a domestic violence shelter, and it broke my heart to see wonderful women remain in relationships with abusive men because they thought that was the only kind of love they could get or the only kind of love they deserved.
Women, if your man is hurting you, he’s not worth the dirt under your feet. Give him his walking papers and find someone who will treat you right.
I have been in a verbally abusive relationship with a woman before, one who also saw nothing wrong with slapping a male if she felt like it. I’mnot sure which hurt more – the verbal disrespect or the physical pain.
So I know that much of this cuts both ways. At the same time, I would never had forgiven myself if I had ever laid a hand on her.
Thank goodness I eventually had the good sense to pack my bags and leave. I later met a woman who healed many of my hurts simply by being a good woman who carried herself well and was secure enough in herself that she felt no need to belittle anyone else.
Whether you are male or female – if the relationship is such that your self confidence is being undermined or there is a steady stream of debilitating comments coming your way, then you need to get out of it. And if you have been physically struck by your partner, realize the time to get out is NOW, not later.
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