Comments on: How Do You Tell A Friend That Her Husband Is Cheating?

By: Sagemother

Sagemother — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 19:28:02 +0000

I hope I never find myself in this situation.

I would have to tell my friend, and then be prepared for the friendship to end.

I wouldn’t confront he husband because I wouldn’t want him preparing a cover story.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 06:37:31 +0000

Katharina, maybe that’s really what happened. We confronted him and maybe it set him on the right track in making their relationship work.

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 06:36:27 +0000

EviesEarth, I really did lose a lot of sleep over this one because she is a very good friend of mine.

Is honesty really the best policy nowadays, even with friendships?

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 06:29:55 +0000

Atula, we never told her. And everything seems to have patched itself right….. They now have two kids and are happily married.

I think we made the right call of not telling her.

By: katharina

katharina — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 11:41:05 +0000

Ugh, that’s a nasty one to deal with! I have a feeling that he’ll tell her himself but somehow try to blame you and your friend for setting him up or something.

That’s often how guys like that try to get out of their self imposed hot water.

By: EviesEarth

EviesEarth — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 06:04:04 +0000

Tough situation. I agree about checking the profile. I would say be honest and to the point with your friend.

By: atula

atula — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 05:56:09 +0000

It is really never easy to confide about such things but I suppose if you really are a true friend u can tell your friend in a sublte way or maybe just ask her to herself check the profile in the site….this will save the trouble of telling her on her face about her husband’s ways and give her the proof too….

By: Imaginary Diva

Imaginary Diva — Sat, 21 Jul 2007 19:37:37 +0000

Thanks for dropping by!