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She started testing the waters on on-line dating, and got herself a profile on lavalife. Every single night she had a date. I couldn’t believe that there were so many single men in Vancouver. I couldn’t keep track who was who anymore. There were just so many coffee dates, and dinner dates. She finally met the man of her dreams, and in six months got engaged. They had a wonderful lavish reception before that year was over. Her son just turned one year this year.
We still do lunch once a week and we don’t really talk much about her relationship. I mean, I just assume everything is as happy-ever-after as she had expected. I get bits and pieces. Like he’s been gone a lot travelling for work and she wishes that he wouldn’t. After all, they now have a baby to take care of.
A couple of weeks ago, another girlfriend called me to ask if they were having problems because she saw his old profile on lavalife active. We did what most women would do, we pooled our resources and snooped around. She sent him an email to go on a date. Sad to say, he did not disappoint us.
My girlfriend and I have given him a week to tell her, or else we would. The week is almost up and we are dreading the prospect that we might have to tell her. So, how do you do that? Tell a friend that her husband is cheating on her?
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It is really never easy to confide about such things but I suppose if you really are a true friend u can tell your friend in a sublte way or maybe just ask her to herself check the profile in the site….this will save the trouble of telling her on her face about her husband’s ways and give her the proof too….
Tough situation. I agree about checking the profile. I would say be honest and to the point with your friend.
Ugh, that’s a nasty one to deal with! I have a feeling that he’ll tell her himself but somehow try to blame you and your friend for setting him up or something.
That’s often how guys like that try to get out of their self imposed hot water.
Atula, we never told her. And everything seems to have patched itself right….. They now have two kids and are happily married.
I think we made the right call of not telling her.
EviesEarth, I really did lose a lot of sleep over this one because she is a very good friend of mine.
Is honesty really the best policy nowadays, even with friendships?
Katharina, maybe that’s really what happened. We confronted him and maybe it set him on the right track in making their relationship work.
I hope I never find myself in this situation.
I would have to tell my friend, and then be prepared for the friendship to end.
I wouldn’t confront he husband because I wouldn’t want him preparing a cover story.